Appropriate way of speaking at certain times

i forgot if i pointed this out when speaking about how the guy for the tax verification job at thomson reuters asked me if there was something wrong with me yesterday.. THAT is just ONE of the MANY reasons why i don't "GOT THIS!".. when people inappropriately deal with me- like asking me disrespectful questions like that. i suppose he felt like he didn't really feel that he needed to take my feelings into consideration because i didn't have anyone like my job coach listening in on the conversation. i did tell my job coach that he asked me if anything was wrong with me and she said that was "mean" of him to ask me. like i said though- if they're going to think it's acceptable to ask their employees questions like that- i don't wanna work there anyway.